One day, I read this interesting material over Yahoo Indonesia. Unfortunately, I couldn't find the article for more reference. When I read it, I only wrote down the points, so I would have some material discussion with a visiting friend at the evening.
The writer said that there's 5 things that often makes men so difficult to keep up in talking with women:
The writer said that there's 5 things that often makes men so difficult to keep up in talking with women:
- Women often talk while do some thinking altogether
- We (hey, I'm woman!) often talk about many things at once
- Men hate it when we keep interrupt while they're talking
- Women love talk in riddles
- Women prefer to keep silent to show the anger or disagreement
Actually, at first I completely forgot to bring this open for our discussion over dinner that evening. But, somehow I came up with this material and asked what his opinion is. At least, towards me as a woman. And what his answer was?
Yes, it all are very true. Not only me, but also for other women. Especially the second point. Sometimes, he had so much trouble in catching up with my fast talks (in English, no less....hahaha...I just hope he really understood what I stormed about...hahaha...!). Then, it would become much more confusing for him when I kept jumping from a subject to another in the same breath. He really needed to listen hard and focus his attention to my talking, so he could understood where my main direction was....hahaha...Poor him! So, sorry, sir...but I couldn't gave any promises not to do it again next time....hahaha....!
Yes, it all are very true. Not only me, but also for other women. Especially the second point. Sometimes, he had so much trouble in catching up with my fast talks (in English, no less....hahaha...I just hope he really understood what I stormed about...hahaha...!). Then, it would become much more confusing for him when I kept jumping from a subject to another in the same breath. He really needed to listen hard and focus his attention to my talking, so he could understood where my main direction was....hahaha...Poor him! So, sorry, sir...but I couldn't gave any promises not to do it again next time....hahaha....!
Sounds to me it was an honest friendly rendevous you had with your friend. He did not try talking sweets like boring men always do when they try to get their way to a woman. That's good.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I had so much fun in getting information about things from a man's view. Good for my soul...hahaha...
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